http://www.drgary.tv . If you are stiill hurting and bothered by past events in your life from betrayal, and trust issues, here is a real way to deal with it so you can change your future and finally live life to it’s fullest.
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That was very insightful!
Thank you for clearing up "forgiveness"
When you speak about dealing with betrayal that's so true… Shortly after I was wrongfully fired from my government job due to a sexual harrassment case with me as the victim I realized that the company had forged signatures and falsified documents and because it was a government agency in a small town they had people to follow me around and tap my phone so that I can be too distracted to sue them. I still can't dial out on my phone without them interfering with my conversation with the Peron I've dialed and I have proof of this. The sad news is is that I don't think I can ever get over this to know that our government really doesn't give a Damon about it's people enough to treat a former employee after they've devoted 3+ years to the company in that fashion. A waste of time really. I can now say that I can forgive- I haven't yet, but I can say that I can, but know that I will never trust our government again and I will never take another census survey ever!!! Thank you so much for your video. You've been a big help. : )
thank you Dr
Thank you!
Thank you very much you provided some helpful tools that I am certain will help me to move forward.
It's one thing to play the victim but it's another thing to actually be a victim.I'm tired of this piece of shit life.I'm tired of my ex getting all the credit for taking care of our kids when she was the one who left me financially ruined!I'm tired of my family judging me for being unemployed when thay know Goddamn well that I've been looking for work and for the most part been having a hard time finding work! I'm tired of being slandered by ignorant nosey ass people who spread lies about me!If the roles were reversed I wouldn't do that shit to them…I would help out in a heartbeat.Fuck all them fake ass snake fag's!
I don't give a Fuck no more
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Thank you I am going to give this a huge try. it's been so hard for me too move on, especially with suffering from bi-polar depression but I feel hope with your message.
If you don't confront the person who betrayed you, you will have that hurt and resentment channeled into anger misdirected at others. Go towards that uncomfortable place in life and speak your mind and walk away. There must be a moment that you live in truth. We are not entitled to being treated well. We have to earn our respect. Don't reward bad behavior. The secret to life is too care less about what others think and stand up for yourself. Live your life in authenticity, be brave and use your instinct. You are not alone.
I feel like my immediate family is getting ready to betray me….again.
Thanks, this is hard to do, but I'm committed to moving forward. Betrayal cuts deep!
thanks nice sensible words.
Why not do like you say and take a cold revange quietly ?
Wtf are you talkin about? You bring about as much physical pain as humanity possible, without killing them unless absolutely necessary, THATS WTF YOU DO…don't be a bitch, EYE FOR AN EYE GODDAMNIT, make em pay for fucking with you…trust me, it feels FANTASTIC, and the sound of breaking the bones of someone who desperately deserves it is damn near musical….
lol Sorry but the bit on karma and what goes around comes around is b.s…. in my' humble opinion and experience…oftentimes people who do mega shitty things continue to do those things, never learn from it and continue to hurt others…. oh and they get their' friends to help them destroy you all behind a carefully protected curtain/veil …they' even do illegal things like hack into someone's computer or slander. Seriously spend some time reading people's stories.
the problem is "just ignoring what happened" won't change anything… i experienced alot of that kind of shit.
Those bad people are happy through their betrayal..they live great lives because of the wealth/success they took from me.
they are literally rewarded their whole lifes for beeing selfish/evil/criminal. they benefit from doing stuff like that
there is no karma or god that will turn things for them one day because they have done so much evil… they will be rewarded because they just take what they want no matter what. The only way is to actually get revenge even if that means ruining you own life… it is most likely already ruined.
…Shutting Out and leaving the Energy Thieves and Emotional Saboteurs behind is your Best Bet!
Man, You hit it on the head. Thank you.
Revenge is not what I really want, but sometimes I feel like I do really want it.
I am right to feel slighted and angry and to think of justice.
I am wrong for desiring revenge.
I know the consequences and emotional weight I am left with when I deliberately harm others.
I am wrong to want to do anything knowing it may harm another. Any other.
The people I feel the most revenge desires for
are a certain type of person. One I feel righteous and noble wanting revenge on.
I need to check those feelings. Pride.
How dare I feel pride about this.
This type of person cannot feel happy like I can feel happy.
They do sick things to cope with their existence.
I am not the one who gets to dole out punishment to them.
God has shown me love and helped me.
I am not God. I do not get to do his job.
I don't get to tell myself I'm acting on righteousness to get justice in the “ways available to me.”
Beyond the moral and spiritual issues of revenge.
It is not practical. These people play a game I am a novice at.
They have more to lose than I do.
I would not be wise to dig two graves.
I want to live. And I cannot live with revenge.
Goodbye revenge. In Jesus name I wish revenge out of my life. Amen.
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Thank You 🙂
Thank you so much, you have no idea how this has helped me get through a really bad time/moment in my life and to move forward, it saved me so.
thanks doc ! , you really are a life changer
Call Tony Soprano LOLOL
Thanks for those wise words! It's sometimes difficult for your emotional response to catch up to your objective reality — that is what I have been struggling with. Any suggestions for techniques that might assist? I've tried meditation.
Thx for the clear perspective
that was amazing, thank you:)
Can the depression from a betrayal/abandoning actually be the event that damages you more than the betrayal/abandoning? I ask because I fear this may have happened to me. I was madly in love with a woman for 10 yrs. We are both very level headed and diplomatic people. On Xmas day she told me she didn't feel the same any more and that we need to split. I was devastated but after a couple days I came around. I wasn't through tho because it made no sense to me and who we were as people. So I started to try to fix it and get her to come back. She wasn't having it and I fell into insanity. The next three years were a catatonic hell of depression and self loathing. I was always working to get over it because I was starting to fear that the longer I indulged these feelings the deeper they would dig in me. I've, on the surface, had a great life all this time, friends, family, women interested in me, etc… but 7 years on now and I feel I've lost who I was before these events. I used to be a very fun, creative musician, with many interests. Not anymore, I'm no longer inspired in any way. Everything is dull and shitty. I really just want to be asleep all the time, and can't seem to feel any positive emotions. I've forgiven my parter many times, I've done so many introspective things to come to grips with it all. The bottom line is this. I feel like I'm broken. As if my brain/soul/heart has been broken like a broken back or hip. It just ain't coming back. It slowly slowly slowly gets better with time, but it's a real problem for me to overcome. Is it possible my current difficulties are due to the deep depressive state I've endured and not the initial betrayal?
all of the above, shit happens and life goes on.
I've been used for money I just want to kill this person
YESSSSSS! The lesson eludes me in the wake of my rage, that is why I can't move on from it. I spend a lot of time in my head, analyzing this or that. So no, it doesn't feel satisfactory to simply decide I'm just gonna release it from my life. Yes I'm capable of deciding this or that for myself with a disciplined mind, but not until I feel/learn and am able to identify what my lesson was from it. Any suggestions or question grid I can take myself through (online anywhere) to whittle down what the lesson was? Cuz right now, the only one I can come up with is trust no one.
That actually helped. Thanks doctor
Thank You, This is something I really needed to hear.
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Thanks so much! I needed that today! Awesome!
Thank you so much for this I really needed this thank you thank you
Hey Thanks Dr. Daniel. It took 30 years of the best 18-48 years of my life for the betrayal in my life to take place. When my friends and family were at the beach I was fixing things on the farm. Then the "promised" farm was stolen by my family that promised it. I learned that this world is full of lazy jealous people that hate hard workers. There's virtually nothing left of my life to live as you say "fully"; so I over eat to feel full.
My friend betrayed me and sometimes your friends are your worst enemies but you live and learn. I destroyed her and her reputation. She was the biggest cunt
Thank you
The perfect revenge is to concentrate all that hate into a great idea. Work at it like your life depends on it and reap the rewards and one day when you stop at the traffic lights in your Bentley convertible and look to the left you will see the little runt driving his VW Beetle on his way to his 9-5. Look right at him, smile and say "I forgive you". Yep, it's a true story!!
Really needed to hear this. Thank you sir.
Thank you so, so much! I really needed this!
I was cheated on and made me look like the bad one because I left. How do you forget that?